Monday, October 20, 2014

Finally some fun + pumpkin pics!

Yes, you read that right: after a week straight of busting our buns to move/unpack/clean/etc., we finally had a little fun this weekend! 

On Friday morning, I went to my first MOPS meeting here in Sugar Land. I can't tell you how good it felt to 1) look presentable, 2) get a little break from our youngest child, and 3) meet/chat with some other stay-at-home moms in the area! After that, I picked Davis up from school and headed over to Amanda's house to watch both of my gremlins and the twins while she had a parent-teacher conference at daycare. It sounded a little intimidating in theory, but since Avery was napping and the other 3 kiddos were all on their best behavior, it was easy peasy.


On Saturday morning, we ventured out with the Joiners to get some pictures of the kids at a local pumpkin patch. Unfortunately the ground was wet, the sun was bright, and the kids weren't feeling terribly cooperative, so Amanda made the executive decision for us to peace out and risk embarrassing ourselves with pictures at the local HEB instead. I'm glad she did because I think they turned out pretty darn cute!




On Saturday afternoon, we got a lot done around the house (and fortunately didn't watch our poor Aggies get their butts kicked). I'm not sure all the house productivity was really all that "fun," but the rest of my fam seemed to think shopping for mattresses for the guest bedroom was pretty entertaining?


On Saturday evening, we got together with Wade's entire fam for dinner at Cafe Adobe. I have no pictures as proof, so you'll just have to take my word for it. There were margaritas and queso and most importantly, lots of conversations about Ebola with my brother-in-law, who happens to be an EMT in Dallas! (Don't worry, he hasn't been exposed to it... but I made sure not to lick his hands or anything, just in case.)

On Sunday morning, we went to church! Just kidding. By "went to church," I actually mean we went to HEB, Lowe's, and Target at 8:30 in the morning. And then we spent the majority of the day busting our buns some more.


But to end on a good note, we took a break with the Joiners to let the kiddos trash our new playroom like crazy animals play together and we went on a walk in our new 'hood after dinner.


Hope the rest of you had a fun weekend, too!

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Adjusting

I would love for this post to be about how we are totally settled in the new house and everything is peachy, but here's the truth: change is hardddddddddd.

I spent nearly 2 months thinking about this transition non-stop. I just told myself over and over again that it was going to be tough at first, but it was going to be worth it. In my head, I know this to be true. So for some reason, I thought being mentally prepared and armed with this truth would somehow make things easier... but alas, that does not seem to be the case. Regardless of all that preparation, I still feel lonely, I still feel like crying at any moment of the day, I still question whether or not we made the right decision, and I still wonder if it will be like this forever.

I have moved many times in my life, and it has always gotten better with time, and I have always been sad in the end to leave the place I initially feared I would hate forever. So I just need to keep chug, chug, chug, puff, puff, puff-ing along until it gets better. I just wish I could snap my fingers and make it better now! Especially because it is killing me inside to watch Davis adjust to this change. He really is doing ok overall, but he is acting out in little ways and innocently making depressing comments about wanting to go back to his "old" house or his "old" school. It's both frustrating and heart-wrenching for me at the same time.

Though it may not seem like it, occasionally I am taking breaks from my role as Debbie Downer to enjoy the new house, enjoy the new area we live in, and especially enjoy seeing my sister on a daily basis. She is doing her darndest to make us feel at home by making food for us, setting up play dates for me, helping us finish setting up the house, and even delivering queso at my door at the end of a particularly sad day. If not for her, I would be even more of a grump than I have been.

And there you have it: the latest update on our moving adventures, whether you wanted it or not. Hoping for a fabulous weekend to get my mind off everything - and give me something else to blog about besides this move!!!

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

So, we moved!

Forgive the lack of posting yesterday; we've been just a wee bit busy over the past several days and the internet we were supposed to have upon arrival at our new house still does not exist. Thankfully Amanda and Brian are letting me steal their internet for a bit so I can write this post - already appreciating the perks of living so close to family! Anyway, here is the VII (Very Important Information) you need to know about our move:

1. The actual physical move went smoothly. No major items were broken and no one was killed.


2. Despite being very overwhelmed, I have managed to only tear up on a small handful of occasions. 

3. I have had many unpleasant thoughts about the previous owners of our house in regards to their upkeep - or major lack thereof - of the house. 

4. Avery doesn't seem to have noticed that we moved, but she does seem to notice extra loudly every time I leave the room right now, so maybe that's her way of dealing. She has also not been the world's most helpful moving companion, but I'd argue she is one of the cutest.


5. Davis most definitely does notice that we have moved, and I don't think I'll ever forget how depressing his reaction was when he came to the new house for the first time (after spending the night with Wade's parents on Friday). He was so, so sad and confused and couldn't stop crying and it broke my heart into a million trillion pieces. I tried to distract him by asking him what made him happy that day, and he replied through crocodile tears, "Nothing!" (Insert sad emoticon here.) Seriously, I had been envisioning him being so excited about his new room and his new playroom, and this totally caught me off guard.

6. But thankfully, to quote Ryan Gosling in The Notebook, Davis has "like a two-second rebound rate" and after getting his initial meltdown out of the way, he has been his usual cheery self ever since.

7. He also started his new school yesterday and thankfully he had a great day! I spent a little time in mourning because it's not exactly like our old school and because we know zero people there... but as long as Davis is happy there, I'll be ok.


8. I have no pictures of the house to share yet because ain't nobody got time for that... and we're not totally unpacked yet anyway.

9. I owe many, many thanks to our family (and Brian's!) for helping us get situated and give our house the TLC it needed right off the bat. If not for all of them, I would be hiding in a closet on the floor in the fetal position shoving Reese's peanut butter cups in my mouth.

10. I'm tired. So that's all you get.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Goodbye, house

Goodbye, house.


Goodbye to the first home we ever owned.

Goodbye to the place where we brought both of our babies home from the hospital.

Goodbye to the window where they watched and waited for Daddy to come home each night.

Goodbye to the stairs on which they learned to climb.

Goodbye to the nursery where we rocked them to sleep.

Goodbye to the backyard where our sweet dog rests in peace. 

Goodbye to the kitchen where so much of our time was spent.

Goodbye to the playroom where hours were spent playing.

Goodbye to the place where countless laughs were shared and countless tears were shed.

Goodbye, house. Thank you for being good to us.

Thursday, October 09, 2014

Tomorrow, bright and early

A few days after we found out we were moving, we headed to the bookstore to find a book for Davis to help explain the upcoming events to him a little better. We chose The Berenstain Bears' Moving Day and we have read it many times over the past couple of months. It's a little longer than I have the patience for sometimes, but it really is the perfect book for our situation.

These 2 pages in particular have really hit home for me this week:


In case you are reading this on your phone and the text is too small, it says:
"And what about my friends?" asked Brother. "We can't put them in a box and take them along!"
"That's true," said Mama, lifting Brother onto her lap. "You'll be leaving your friends behind. Papa and I will, too. That's what happens when you move. But you can keep in touch with them. You can write, even visit, perhaps. And besides, you can make lots of new friends."
"When are we going to move?" Brother wanted to know.
"Tomorrow, bright and early," Mama told him. "The moving bears will be here first thing in the morning."
I feel you, Brother. I'm apprehensive about leaving our friends, too, and I wish we could put them in a box and take them along. But your mama is right: we can still keep in touch with old friends while also making new ones. One way or another, those movers are showing up at our house tomorrow, bright and early. Here goes nothing!

Wednesday, October 08, 2014

Distracted by Davis

Instead of talking about The Big Move some more today, let's talk about some of Davis's recent amusing behavior, shall we?


We saw a man whose arms were covered in tattoos and he said to me, "Mommy, that man has a lot of stamps!"

I told him that Avery's birthday was coming up and asked him what he was going to get her for a gift. Without skipping a beat, he responded very enthusiastically, "A toy robot for ME!!!"

They sing a song at school that ends in, "Amen, amen" (pronounced ah-men, ah-men). When he sings it, he ends it with, "Awww, man! Awww, man!"

After a visit at school from the local fire department last week (for educational purposes; there was no actual fire), he came home and told me, "When there is a fire, you call 1-9-9!" #nailedit

The kid is hungry all the time. ALL THE TIME. He eats breakfast at 7am and is asking for a snack by 8am. After he finishes a meal, he almost always follows it up with a smirk and his own tagline, courtesy of The Very Hungry Caterpillar: "But I'm stiiiill hungry!"

With all the talk we've been doing about selling/buying houses, he often whines out of nowhere, "I really want to buy a new house!" He'll be pleasantly surprised on Friday when he realizes we already have!

Apparently his teacher is working with them on writing their names, because he cranked this out a couple of nights ago. Sure, it's mostly illegible, but you can see it, right?!


Monday, October 06, 2014

From the desk of Avery

Hey guys!


Mama says she has lost her mind and doesn't know where to find it; I'm guessing it's hiding somewhere in this pile of boxes I'm sitting on, but she says she's too tired to check. So I told her I'd do her a solid and babysit the blog today! She said I could talk about whatever I wanted, so here's what I have to say:

Cheerios are delicious. 

Also, why do grown-ups make such a big deal about pooping in the bath tub?! So dramatic.

Speaking of drama, I wish you guys could have seen my mom in action at HomeGoods this weekend when she went to buckle me into the shopping cart and a grasshopper the size of China came crawling up one of the buckles.

This is unrelated, but I tried my first bite of cake this weekend. I spit it out and threw it on the floor because it was new and change is bad.

Whew! This blogging business is tough work. I think that's all I can crank out today. Hopefully Mama will find her brain before it's time for another post, or else I'm going to have ask Davis to take over next time. Toodles!

Friday, October 03, 2014

So long, farewell

Even though we still have a week left here in Austin, this past week has been filled with lots of farewells. I am not a big fan of goodbyes - is anyone? - but I suppose I'm at least grateful it happened this week instead of next when I will need to focus on getting the house packed up. 

On Tuesday, I got together one last time for lunch with some of my former co-workers. I always feel silly even referring to them in that way, because they are certainly friends rather than just people with whom I used to work. I will miss going up to see them (and distract them from work) on random afternoons, but thankfully they still work with my dad, so they aren't getting rid of me permanently!

On Wednesday night, my sweet playgroup friends hosted one last mamas' night out for us at one of their houses, where they spoiled me and made me even more depressed than I already was about leaving them. With the absence of any family living in Austin over the last couple of years, these gals and their little ones have filled that role for us, and moving away from them is not going to be easy.


On Thursday afternoon, some more good mama friends held a farewell play date for us at a local bounce house, and I loved that Davis got to have one last chance to play with a bunch of his favorite buddies (while I got to chat with some of mine!). It left me wondering if I can either 1) clone all of them to bring to Sugar Land with us, or 2) kidnap all of them, pack them in a few boxes (marked as "fragile," of course), and throw them on the moving truck against their will.


On Thursday evening, it was time for my last happy hour with my dear friends from high school. Our group has been getting together once a month for the last 4-5 years since a bunch of us moved back to town, and I am so bummed to not get to be there each month anymore. The good news: our friendships have lasted since graduating from high school in 2001, so surely they can last with me being 3 hours away now!

Somehow I managed not to ugly cry at any of these events, but we've still got one week left, so I'm pretty confident the tears are still to come. I really am excited about our new adventure in Sugar Land, but having to say these goodbyes is the hard part we have to get through first. Thanks to everyone who has made us feel so loved this week as we prepare for our departure!

Wednesday, October 01, 2014

Avery is eleven months old!

Someone turns 11 months old today! Spoiler alert: that someone is Avery!




Here are some things we have learned about Avery in her 11th month of life:

She has a second tooth! I would be more excited about this development if it weren't accompanied by so much crying and grumpiness. 

She is cruising around from one piece of furniture to the other, and she has even stood up without holding onto anything for a few seconds at a time here and there.

Much like her mama, girlfriend is currently very picky about fruits and veggies. I'm trying to figure out a way to have some injected into Cheerios since she still thinks they are life and the rest is just details.

As previously mentioned, she knows how to climb stairs.

She is really not attached to any toys in particular; her favorite things to play with are iPhones and anything her brother has.

She is still petite, still tan, and still unenthused about being held by other people besides her parents.

Happy 11 month birthday, Avery!


Monday, September 29, 2014

Busy bees

I can still remember weekends from our newlywed days when we would sit around bored, trying desperately to come up with entertainment to help us pass the time until Monday rolled around. Sometimes I want to go back in time and punch myself for being so "woe is me!" about HAVING FREE TIME, but the truth is, I really prefer our weekends the way they are now. Bored is no longer a word with which I can identify, and there is rarely a dull moment. Here's what kept us busy on this weekend...

We killed time running errands and going to the park on Saturday morning while Wade had a work obligation. I was dreading this day because even though it looked very much like any other weekday looks at our house, my brain still knew it was Saturday and that I shouldn't be flying solo with the kids. Thankfully time passed quickly, AND thanks to an accidentally placed 75 cent clearance sticker and some awesome customer service at HEB, I made Davis's day by getting him an Elmo watch he wanted. 


Once Wade was home, we spent halftime during the A&M game eating an early dinner at Phil's Icehouse where we all practiced our selfie skillz. Some of us fared better than others.


We came home to watch the Aggies make a comeback to win the game in overtime. We also baked some cookies (you can thank Davis for the haphazard placement of the cookie dough... kind of hurts my eyes to look at) and graciously let Avery have one. Her first cookie ever (unless you count the bite she stole off the floor once)!


No pictures from Sunday, but unless you have an affinity for pictures of people going to church, packing boxes, and going to Home Depot, hopefully you can find it in your heart to forgive me.

What kept you busy this weekend?